3 Crystals to Mega Boost Your Self-Esteem

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Have issues with worthiness? Self-Worth? Self-esteem? Self love?

Well, I’ve got some crystals for you today!

Yes, I’ve got some crystals to help boost your feelings of worthiness, or boost your self-esteem, your self-worth. 

You know, a lot of us have issues with this.

Because…maybe we’ve been bullied.  Perhaps, there are people in our lives that talk negatively to us or criticize us for every little thing we do. 🙁

After a while you start to believe that stuffs.

Keep in mind, they’re being this way b/c you’re not just like them, because of their own feelings of low self-esteem & low self-worth.

These people make themselves feel better by coming at you, belittling you, talking down to you & making you feel that way.  That may be exactly where your feelings of low self-esteem, low self-worth come from.

Of course, there may be more extreme things that people have done to you or circumstances behind it: abusive relationships, both physical & emotional that do that to you as well. ((HUGS))

Crystals for Self Esteem & Worthiness

Let’s get back to feeling worthy & the crystals you can use to help reinforce those feelings.

Of course, in addition to your sparkly tools, you want to be working on yourself in lots of different ways:

  • self-care
  • therapy (group or one on one or both!)
  • journaling
  • surrounding yourself with supportive people
  • self-help books, etc.

You know I don’t ever rely just on crystals alone, but I definitely like them as a healing tool & support to help us along with other healing modalities that we’re using to achieve the goal of whatever we’re trying to achieve.  In this case, it’s self-worthiness & self-esteem.

White Precious Opal

This stone looks like Common Opal, BUT it has an iridescence & some flashes of blue, green + red in there!

White Precious Opal or any kind of Opal is great for boosting self-esteem. ♥ It’s also known for purifying & removing blocks.

Rob Lavinsky, iRocks.com – CC-BY-SA-3.0 [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

Rob Lavinsky, iRocks.com – CC-BY-SA-3.0 [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons


Cinnabar is a powerful stone, great for boosting self-esteem!

I have a blog post and video all about Cinnabar that I will link to here. A lot of red stones are good for boosting self-esteem, but Cinnabar is especially known for that.



WARNING: Cinnabar is a stone is you want to be careful with because it’s a toxic stone. It has Mercury in it.  But I’m not afraid of handling it.  It’s not so crazy-toxic that I can’t touch it.  I just wouldn’t put this in my mouth or make a Gem Elixir with it or anything like that. And I’m always mindful of washing my hands after I do handle it. Maybe I’m a little too cautious, but it can’t hurt, right?

Always err on the side of caution with any kind of crystal that may have elements in it that could be toxic, like Cinnabar.

Here’s an affirmation that I really like for worthiness in general b/c…you know…you need to know internally that all of us, every single one of us, are worthy and that we deserve to receive good in all forms.  All forms, we all deserve it:

We deserve to receive good in all forms.

Spirit Quartz

It has a slight Lilac-tone to it, or hue.  Some are more vibrant than others.  Look how purty-sparkly it is!


Spirit Quartz is a great 1, again, for boosting self-worth, feelings of worthiness.  It’s also known for purification & protection; freedom from fear. Get yourself some Spirit Quartz if you need to boost that up.  And a cluster would be really good for sending out energy in all different directions, if you’d like to radiate that energy into your sacred space or office perhaps: send out that energy in all different directions!

We all need a self-worth boost sometimes, right? Please tell me & our Crystal Hottie Community if you use these crystals & how you work with them in the comments below.

Crystal Blessings,

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  1. I absolutely love that Spirit Quartz, it looks amazing! I’m trying to find different crystals that help me to feel better about myself and to motivate me as well. I will look into the Opal as well!

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  2. Thank you for the useful information.
    I do have a stone at home similar to the spirit quartz but not so sure if it one though
    Cannot wait to go and look at it!!!!

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  3. Spirit Quartz is also great for creating harmony in groups and bringing harmony to ones home. It is claimed that each crystal point on the druzy enhances the positive energy of the underlying quartz crystal on which it formed ten fold. All of these points and the underlying quartz work together in harmony radiating a high vibrational harmonic energy. I have used it in business to create a harmonious atmosphere in the work place. Spirit Quartz also comes in white and citrine.

  4. I have a lovely specimen, apart from numerous other spirit quartz, which is a ‘brownish’ colour,
    little points are white, or opaque.

    Loe all of these. In a description I have of spirit quartz, it claims that these have emerged specifically for this ‘age’ as aids to ‘skin ailments’, so I use them whenever I have some skin eruption or something to do with skin.

    I also sleep with a small one under my pillow, blissful sleep!

  5. Where is a place; I live in Eldora; where I can get the crystals I need ? I desperately need the three in this article.
    I have no self esteem, no energy, terribly depressed by my husband mouth!! I am a peaceful soul, not a hot tempered, verbally abusive one. I am also ill. I have a kidney disorder. Constantly producing stones; thus chronic pain. I want the crystals, but don’t know how to use them.

    1. If you don’t have a metaphysical store near you, you can get them online. I’ve gotten many from Amazon. Crystals are awesome!! I am so much happier since I’ve begun using them.
      Good luck with everything.

  6. Much Love & Blessings to everyone in Florida! Please be safe. Never liked Opal till recently when I could finally see all the magnificent colors. Look forward to getting a ring hopefully at Tucson Gem Show!!

  7. That’s interesting! I had found myself being drawn to spirit quartz shortly after my long-term relationship ended; I had previously not “liked” spirit quartz!

    I guess I should go out & find a piece that speaks to me!! =)

  8. I have a beautiful spirit quartz that is a trigonic record keeper! Which I learned about in a previous Hibiscus Moon video. Thank you!

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